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When Life Feels Random (It's Not) | Parshas Vayikrah

When Life Feels Random (It's Not) | Parshas Vayikrah

Things aren’t just happening to you.

March 20, 2026
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In this week’s Parshah, the word ויקרא looks almost normal, except that the final aleph is miniature, like it’s trying not to take up too much space. It’s one of only a handful of small letters in the entire Torah, and the many have used a lot of ink explaining why.

The classic explanation is about Moshe Rabeinu’s humility. Hashem wanted to write vayikra - “and He called,” a term of endearment, the way Hashem speaks to the malachim. But Moshe, in his humility, wanted it written as vayikar - “and He happened upon,” the same word used for Bilaam, implying randomness rather than relationship.

The compromise here was that the aleph stays, but it’s small.

But what does this aleph really do to the word?

Without the aleph, vayikar means happenstance. Coincidence. Things just happening, without any intention behind them. It’s the language of randomness - of a universe where you’re on your own, where events have no meaning, and where there’s no one calling all the shots. This is the word used in the Torah when Hashem appears to Bilaam: vayikar — He happened upon him. Which is sort of incidental and Impersonal.

But, when you add the aleph, and the word becomes vayikra - and He called. It then becomes intentional. Personal. The way a parent calls a child.

The aleph here, is Hashem.

So when you add the aleph to vayikar, you’re not just adding a letter. You’re adding Hashem to the picture.

Without Him there’s randomness, chaos, and things just happening.

But with Him, there’s a calling, a purpose, and a relationship with our Creator.

• • •

Most of our days don’t feel like grand spiritual moments. Most moments feel like vayikar — just things happening, one after another. There’s the morning rush, work, dinner, then the bedtime routine. So many random events stacking up into this thing we call life.

And then there are some moments, that are very easy to just go past, where you feel Hashem so clearly in your life. When you get “lucky” and just happen to meet the right person at the right time. Find a spot right in front of the store. Say the exact words that somehow make someone else feel better

That’s the small aleph.

But Moshe Rabeinu didn’t want the aleph removed entirely, vayikar instead of vayikra, he just wanted it smaller.

Because he understood that this is actually how most of us experience Hashem.

We rarely experience unmistakable miracles, or very obvious moments of divine intervention. But we can see Him clearly in the small, quiet ways, that can easily be missed if we aren’t paying attention. These moments don’t naturally demand recognition, but they’re there if you look.

Rabbi Wein writes that the small aleph teaches us to see Hashem “in every step that one takes, in every smile and tear, in all of the events of life.” Not just the dramatic ones, but the ordinary ones too.

• • •

The Ramban explains that the entire concept of korbanos, the subject of this Parshah, is about confronting mortality. A person brings an animal, and watches how it’s sacrificed with the message being: life is so fragile, and we are very small.

And yet the Parshah that talks about karbanos, is the one that starts with a letter that’s intentionally made small. Saying: yes, we are small, but, that’s not a flaw. That’s the whole point.

There’s a pasuk in Tehillim - zivchei Elokim ruach nishbara - the offerings of Hashem are a broken spirit. The Metzudas Dovid explains that the most pleasing korban to Hashem, isn’t the most expensive animal. It’s a lev nishbar v’nidkeh - a broken and humbled heart.

We start Sefer Vayikra, the entire sefer of korbanos, with a visual reminder that small, humble, broken and imperfect, is not less-than. All of that is our offering to Hashem.

• • •

I don’t know about you, but I feel small often.

Small in the face of what I’m supposed to be doing as a mother, a wife, and as a person trying to grow. Small when I look at my goals and my reality and see how far apart they still are. Small when I fail at the same things I’ve failed at before, falling again and again, and when I fall short again.

And what this Parshah is telling us is: that’s exactly right. The small aleph isn’t a mistake or a compromise - it’s actually an invitation to come as you are. Come small. Come broken. That’s what He’s asking for.

The Midrash says that the ink left over from making the aleph small, the ink Moshe didn’t use, was what Hashem used to give Moshe the rays of light on his face. His humility, his willingness to be small, became his radiance.

Moshe didn’t erase the aleph. It’s still there. And it’s something we have to look for.

Maybe that’s the work of this season. Pesach is coming, and we’re cleaning and scrubbing and preparing. It’s easy to get lost in the vayikar of it all, just things happening, tasks to complete, and boxes to check.

But somewhere in the chaos, there’s a small aleph, an invitation to you, to see Hashem in all of it and to come to Him as you are.

Can you hear it?

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Bracha Berenstein

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