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March 1, 2026
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Venahafoch Hu

“What feels like the end, is sometimes just the set up.”

By Lea Rand

Venahafoch Hu
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Purim isn’t just about costumes.

It’s about how everything looks one way

and is actually another.

It’s about the decree

that felt final.

The fear

that felt real.

The waiting

that felt endless.

And then—

it turned.

Not because it looked like it would.

Not because anyone saw it coming.

Just because that’s how Hashem writes stories.

Hidden.

And Purim isn’t just another year

of dressing up

and reading the Megillah.

It’s not just noise

and celebration.

There’s something deeper in it.

It’s a reminder

that when everything looks sealed,

it isn’t.

That when it feels finished,

it’s not.

Because most of life

doesn’t look like miracles. It looks like stress.

Like carrying something heavy

that no one else really sees.

It looks like waiting for answers.

It looks like praying the results are different this time.

It looks like every day is such an unknown

and waiting for healing.

It looks like hoping something works out

when it really doesn’t look like it will.

It looks like trying again

when you’re tired of trying.

It looks like Haman is winning.

And you’re just standing there

wondering how this is supposed to turn around.

But Purim reminds me

that the rope they build

to hang you

can become the rope

that lifts you.

Venahafoch hu.

What feels like the end

might just be the setup.

What feels like silence

might be something shifting

behind the scenes.

What feels like a “no”

might be a not yet.

We don’t see the palace conversations.

We don’t see the sleepless nights.

We don’t see the way Hashem rearranges everything

at exactly the right second.

We just see the middleand assume it’s stuck.

But it’s not stuck.

It’s turning.

Maybe slowly.

Maybe quietly.

Maybe in ways we won’t recognize

until much later.

And maybe the struggle right now —

the stress,

the waiting,

the unknown —

isn’t proof that we’ve been forgotten.

Maybe it’s just Purim

before the flip.

And when it turns —

and it will turn —

we’ll look back

and realize

the miracle didn’t start

when we saw it.

It started

when everything looked upside do

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About the Author

Lea Rand

feelingsthrougheart@gmail.com

Lea is an Art Therapist with over 12 years of experience working with kids, teens, and young adults. Her approach centers on feeling through heArt - using creativity as a gentle way to explore emotions and personal growth. She blends compassion, playfulness, and connection to help others feel seen, supported, and empowered. She can be contaced via email or at 845-274-5345

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